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The Longest Days of Light, Were My Darkest Times

Compartmentalization |kəmˌpärtˌmen(t)ələˈzāSH(ə)n |noun A subconscious psychological defense mechanism used to avoid cognitive dissonance, or the mental discomfort and anxiety caused by a person's having conflicting values, cognitions, emotions, beliefs, etc. within themselves. A useful tool for the short term, but never a long term solution. In the days and weeks following Adaline's passing, my main …